tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5726795349435769627.post5121120273358897043..comments2023-06-25T07:43:46.575-04:00Comments on Cross Purposes: Submission: Liberation or Validation?Mackenzie Crosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09589056129195515430noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5726795349435769627.post-43212422377646714402009-06-21T22:26:50.867-04:002009-06-21T22:26:50.867-04:00Mr. Cross
That is a tough question and I will mul...Mr. Cross<br /><br />That is a tough question and I will mull it over. I suppose it speaks to a self-worth that should, ideally, be there in each person, regardless of anything else; if she is in a relationship or not. For example, I was always 'Vesta', if you will, long before I was in a happy and well functioning D/s relationship. It improved my happiness quotient but not necessarily my self worth issues. In fact, my self-worth issues became rather secondary to my attempts to quieten my ego and settle into the submission. <br /><br />Certainly, any good man can validate a woman's sense of self-worth. If he takes the time to suggest that she would look wonderful in a skirt; what do you know - she starts wearing skirts! Lots of girls benefit from attention from a man. I suppose, she has to ask herself: do I feel whole in these situations; completely in my element? If she can answer yes, she is in it for the right reasons.Vestahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03677044322646962128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5726795349435769627.post-42877849125674299382009-06-21T21:46:39.601-04:002009-06-21T21:46:39.601-04:00Greetings Vetsa,
Thank you for reading and commen...Greetings Vetsa,<br /><br />Thank you for reading and commenting on my post.<br /><br />In the main I agree with everything you have said.<br /><br />The question becomes, how can a submissive woman protect herself from seeking validation when she should be searching for liberation? It is a difficult personal question.<br /><br />Be seeing you,Mackenzie Crosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09589056129195515430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5726795349435769627.post-3846213382372167582009-06-21T21:24:02.299-04:002009-06-21T21:24:02.299-04:00Mr. Cross:
I am not in a position to know girls l...Mr. Cross:<br /><br />I am not in a position to know girls looking for their "one", but instinctively, I am inclined to agree with this.<br /><br />The opportunity to be in a relationship with someone where a submissive girl can be in accordance with her true nature is, presumably, what is sought. All the other factors that apply to any relationship are there, I would think: like, love, care, attraction and so forth. <br /><br />If she is looking for validation, that she is a person of worth because someone has chosen her, then that is not enough, not even in a vanilla relationship. Yet, if all the strong aspects of a good relationship are in place and the relationship is true to her nature, and as well, her validation as a human being needs work, she may be in the right relationship for that, assuming she has chosen a man of worth as her dominant. <br /><br />Surely, it is best to seek out a man with whom she feels a connection, the opposite half of a whole, and go from there. If all she seeks is validation of her worth, then things are likely to run amuck, yes.Vestahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03677044322646962128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5726795349435769627.post-86768761111447325862009-06-19T14:24:27.525-04:002009-06-19T14:24:27.525-04:00Greetings Anonymous,
Welcome to my blog. I am gla...Greetings Anonymous,<br /><br />Welcome to my blog. I am glad you are finding something of value here.<br /><br />I will contact you directly on FetLife so you can pick up my ID directly.<br /><br />Be seeing you,Mackenzie Crosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09589056129195515430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5726795349435769627.post-61913266979615207562009-06-19T13:49:40.389-04:002009-06-19T13:49:40.389-04:00a friend directed me to Your blog today and i must...a friend directed me to Your blog today and i must say i am impressed at the knowledge and apparent intuitive understanding You display . i noticed that You said You post to FetLife frequently but am not sure how to find Your writings on there. If You have a moment to direct me to some i would appreciate it. my nic is crazyakn. respectfully ~j~<br /><br />btw i am choosing anonymous simply because i am comp illiterate and not quite sure how to work the other option *smiling*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com