Odds and ends - Number 2

Greetings all,

I just had to put something down about D/s. Here are some quotes and excerpts from things I have written in the past.

"Developing ones submission is not about making yourself less. Its about making yourself more."


"One of the wonderful things about D/s is the power dynamic that occurs when a woman of strong character and solid self-esteem kneels to a man and submits. Taking submission from a weak female is a trivial (and somewhat immoral) thing in my opinion."


"Trust, is exposing a vulnerability. It means offering someone an opportunity to damage, or hurt, or gain power. The reason that it is done is as an indicator of the strength of the relationship, its maturity, and the fact that by exposing oneself to risk, there is the potential reward of intimacy and commitment."


Pain and pleasure are two sides of the same coin. There is little difference between the two, beyond the bodies reaction.


"You can submit completely and not be loved. You can submit completely and not love. And sometimes, if you are lucky, you can submit and love and be loved."


The act of rape, is not about the sex, its about the state of mind. The same is true with arousal. It is not what is done, but how one is prepared."

Be seeing you,